What's happened in 9 months? Well D and I broke up. I broke up with him just a couple days after my last post. I told him I was not happy with our relationship and he promised he would make it better. I just wanted to hang out with him more, for him to want to spend time with me. However the very next day he decided to sleep the day away, not do anything around the house (he was unemployed at the time) and I was done. It was so hard because I was really in love with him but I knew that I deserved better than that.
I moved in with my parents and went on a trip to Florida with them. Florida was absolutely amazing! We went for about three weeks and although the weather was awful I had such a nice time. I became closer with my parents and brother by going and spent a lot of time with them. I met a few new friends from the States while there too. Went swimming, saw Winter (a dolphin with a prosthetic tail), went out a lot, spent time reading and just relaxing. When I returned I started looking for a new roommate and put an ad on kijiji (more on that soon). Found an awesome place and an awesome roommate!
Now...I have a new apartment that I LOVE, friends that I LOVE, a path toward a career that I LOVE, A new boyfriend (since the beginning of summer) that I haven't actually said those little words to yet but are just about BURSTING out of me. Life is good :)
Now...I have a new apartment that I LOVE, friends that I LOVE, a path toward a career that I LOVE, A new boyfriend (since the beginning of summer) that I haven't actually said those little words to yet but are just about BURSTING out of me. Life is good :)
Maybe D was depressed because he was unemployed and that's why he "slept the day away". Good luck with your new life/new boyfriend....I would say to keep the words inside for the time being. You weren't on your own very long before you found this latest boyfriend so give it some time.
ReplyDeleteYes, I have considered that after the fact. Friends asked me if he was possibly depressed, I said no way! But the more I thought about it, the more I thought it was likely true and I wasn't seeing it at the time.
DeleteHe chose to quit his job, I asked him to hang out with me ALL THE TIME doing free things (walks, games at home, movies in, cook together, etc) and he would often just say no or stand me up when we had planned activities and instead played video games til early in the morning. I couldn't do it anymore, I needed more.
I'll give it more time with my current boyfriend but I honestly have never been happier.
It sounds like you made some decisions that worked out for the better. I'm glad to hear from you; I was thinking about you last week and am happy to see that you are doing wonderfully.
ReplyDeleteWhere are you working now?
Oh STILL supply teaching. I've been getting more interviews now that a new priority list system has been put in place at least. Maybe this will be my year...Working fairly regularly at least.
DeleteGlad to see you back!
ReplyDeleteYay! You're back. I'm glad you're happy and things are going well.
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